You already know that playing sports benefits your daughter. That’s why you got her involved with sports in the first place. But there may be a few benefits you don’t know about. The Women’s Sports Foundation, a leading internet source for girls and women in sports, lists the following benefits for girls in sports:
Better Grades and Graduation Rate: High school girls playing sports are more likely to get better grades and more likely to graduate from high school than their non-playing counterparts.
Avoid Unwanted Pregnancy: It’s not a guarantee that your daughter will be safe from unwanted pregnancy. However, participation in sports makes it less likely.
Reduce Risk of Teenage Breast Cancer: Your daughter’s risk of breast cancer can be reduced by up to 60% with as little as four hours of exercise per week.
Reduce Risk of Osteoporosis: Sports such as softball, volleyball, soccer, and track, require your daughter to carry her own body weight while training. This type of “weight bearing” exercise promotes bone density and helps establish bone mass which lessens the chance of osteoporosis later in life.
Preparation for the Future: By playing sports, your daughter can learn skills critical for success in the workplace. She’ll learn develop skills such as teamwork, goal setting, and recovering from mistakes. With many families now relying on two incomes to make ends meet, it’s important your daughter be prepared for the challenges of a competitive work place. Do you think it’s a coincidence that 80% of female executives at Fortune 500 companies identified themselves as former “tomboys” that played sports?
Other benefits include more confidence, higher levels of self esteem, lower levels of depression, a more positive body image, and higher states of psychological well being. Okay, you don’t need more convincing. Sports are good for your daughter. But did you know that by age 14, girls are more likely to drop out of their sport than boys. According to the Women’s Sports Foundation, girls drop out at a rate 6 times greater than boys. How do you keep your daughter from being part of that statistic? How do you keep her involved in sports so that she can experience all of these benefits?
Here are some tips to help you do just that!
Tip #1: Exercise Positive Reinforcement
Women’s Sports Foundation research shows that boys and girls between the
ages of 6 and 9 — and their parents — are equally interested in sports participation. However, as stated before, girls are more likely to drop out of their sport by age 14. Girls simply do not receive the same positive reinforcement about their sports participation that boys do. Boys get sports related gifts for birthdays and Christmas. They see sports role models on TV and in the newspaper. It’s “understood” that boys play sports. The same is not true for girls. Show your daughter how interested you are in her sports activities. Make sure your actions and words support her sports participation. One way to do this is to attend practices and games whenever possible.
Tip #2: Expose your Daughter to Women in Sports
Take your daughter to local college games. Watch women’s sports on TV, especially if the sport she plays is on the air. Show her what’s out there for her to accomplish one day. When your daughter sees women playing sports, she’ll appreciate and respect the sports skills of women. She’ll be able to imagine herself excelling in sports which will contribute to her the drive to keep playing.
Tip #3: Be a Role Model
Teach your daughter that sports is a part of life by exercising regularly. Yes, that means you have to get up off the couch and do something rather than sit in front of the TV and eat dessert. In a study of collegiate female athletes, and nonathletes, athletes reported having more physically active parents than the nonathletes. Even if it’s just a walk around the block or around the park a few times a week, you’ll be leading by example. Your daughter will learn that exercise is just as much a part of your life as putting out the trash on rubbish day or vacuuming the carpet. You may not do it every day, but you don’t go for too long without doing.
Tip #4: Be Realistic
Focus on the development of your daughter’s skills more than on her athletic
accomplishments. For example, praise her for performing better than she did
last week or last month. Let her know that you notice her improvement. Don’t
focus so much on whether or not she leads the league or her team in a particular statistic.
Tip #5 Think Before You Speak
She may not show it, but you’re words are important to your daughter.
Insensitive comments can lead to medical disorders. A preoccupation with
weight and body image can have a negative effect on your daughter’s health.
Over-exercising while under-eating can cause your daughter serious problems
both short and long term. Make sure that your daughter’s experience in sports
doesn’t turn into a negative one.
Tip #6: Keep the Game Fun!
No matter what sport your daughter plays, it’s a game. It’s supposed to be fun! I’m sure you perform better when performing a task you enjoy. You’d rather skim through, or drop altogether, the tasks or activities you don’t enjoy. Guess what? You’re daughter is no different. She’s more likely to excel in and continue playing a sport that’s fun for her.
Tip #7: Don’t Mistake Success for Fun
Just because your daughter is one of the best on her team, doesn’t necessarily mean she is having fun. Girls that do excel may feel added pressure to perform. If this pressure becomes overwhelming, playing sports may become more stressful than fun. I know you want your daughter to be the best. But don’t forget to be proud of her when she is being the best that she can be.
Tip #8: Remember That Your Daughter is NOT You
Even though people may compare your daughter to you, she is not you. She
may not have some of the strengths you have. By the same token, she may not have some of the weaknesses you have either. Don’t go nuts if she’s not as good as you were at something. Don’t shelter her from a situation that may have intimidated you. She’s not you. Encourage her to be herself. Celebrate her strengths and help her work through her weaknesses.
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